#ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent

But here’s the quiet ache so many mamas carry and never say out loud — when no one sees what you do, it starts to feel like it doesn’t matter. And when what you do doesn’t seem to matter, you start to wonder if you do. That’s the lie. And we need to call it what it is.

Your worth was never tied to someone else’s awareness of your effort.

Colossians 3:23–24 says, “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward.”

Your audience was never your family’s attention — it was always God’s heart. He sees every unseen hour. Every quiet sacrifice. Every moment you chose love when you were running on empty. And He calls it good.

That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t be seen. It doesn’t mean you should keep swallowing the exhaustion and smiling through it.

“The lack of recognition doesn’t reduce the value of what you’ve done.” ~ Kristianne Wargo

The world may not hand you a trophy for keeping your household running, for holding your child’s heart with care, for showing up again when you had nothing left. But heaven keeps a different record.

Galatians 6:9 reminds us, “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.”

Your harvest is coming. Not because you earned it by burning yourself down, but because faithfulness has a return — and God doesn’t miss a single seed you’ve planted.

But let me be honest with you about something. This series isn’t here to glorify the grind. It’s not here to say, “Keep pouring until there’s nothing left and call it love.” No. Love was never meant to cost you yourself.

You are more than what you produce. You are more than the lunches and the carpools and the bedtime routines and the late-night text messages. Those things matter because you matter — not the other way around.

And you must remember, your children are watching. Not just what you do for them, but how you treat yourself while doing it. They are learning what a woman looks like when she’s whole — or when she’s disappearing. You get to choose which lesson they carry.

Give yourself a gift; honor the unseen.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Honor the unseen!

And that goes for everything you whisper under your breath, “If you only knew.”

You matter and the work you do matters.

So here’s the question — what would it look like to honor the unseen, starting with how you see yourself?

1. Name it.

Write down three things you did this week that no one noticed or thanked you for. Look at that list. That’s love in action — and it deserves to be seen, even if only by you.

2. Release the scorecard.

Stop measuring your worth by whether someone acknowledged what you did. Your labor is not less because it was quiet. Let go of needing the thank-you to feel valuable.

3. Speak over yourself.

Before bed tonight, say this out loud: “What I carry matters. What I do matters. And I matter — not because of what I produce, but because of who I am.”

Mama, the hours are long. There are days when you feel like you’re invisible in your own home, running on fumes and faith and not much else.

But you are not invisible. Not to God. And not to the woman looking back at you in the mirror who deserves to be told, “You’re doing a really beautiful thing.”

The unseen hours don’t make you less. They reveal how deeply you love. And that love is building something you can’t even see yet.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“