The Chaos Isn’t the Whole Story

Chaos and gratitude are not opposites. They can exist in the same breath, the same hour, the same overwhelming Tuesday. The apostle Paul wrote this from a prison cell, of all places:

“Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!” — Philippians 4:4

He wasn’t writing from a mountaintop retreat. He was writing from chains. And yet he understood something we often forget in the middle of our own noise — joy isn’t the reward we get after the chaos clears. It’s a choice we make inside of it.

The same is true for gratitude. It’s not the feeling you have when life finally settles down. It’s the practice you build while life is still happening.

Small Moments Are Still Moments

You don’t need a perfect day to find something worth being thankful for. You need eyes willing to look.

Maybe it’s the way the light came through the window this morning. Maybe it’s a text from a friend who was thinking of you at exactly the right time. Maybe it’s simply that you woke up, breathed in, and got another shot at today. None of these things are small when you actually stop to notice them.

“This is the day the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.” — Psalm 118:24

Not when the day calms down. Not once the to-do list is finished. Today — this one, exactly as it is — is the day to rejoice in.

Maya Angelou put it simply: “This is a wonderful day. I’ve never seen this one before.” No matter how repetitive your routine feels, no version of today has ever existed before. That alone is worth a second look.

Gratitude Is a Discipline, Not a Mood

It would be easy to say “just be grateful” and leave it there. But gratitude in the middle of a hard, full, chaotic day isn’t a feeling that shows up uninvited — it’s a discipline you build on purpose, the same way you’d build any other habit.

Try this: at three points in your day — morning, midday, and night — pause for ten seconds and name one true, good thing. Not the biggest thing. Just one true thing. A cup of coffee that was actually hot. A conversation that went better than expected. The simple fact that you’re still standing at the end of it.

This is what Paul meant when he wrote:

“Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:18

Not for all circumstances — some days genuinely hurt, and pretending otherwise helps no one. But in all circumstances, there is still something to hold onto. The discipline is training yourself to find it, even on the days it’s hiding.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Find the gift in the grind!

Let the Hard Moments Refine You, Not Define You

Some days aren’t just busy — they’re heavy. You’ll have days that test you, disappoint you, or leave you wondering if you have anything left to give. Those days need honesty as much as gratitude. It’s okay to acknowledge that something is hard.

But hard doesn’t have to mean hopeless. James wrote to people who were living through real trials, not hypothetical ones:

“Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance.” — James 1:2-3

This isn’t about faking a smile through pain. It’s about trusting that even the hard chapters are shaping you into someone steadier, someone stronger, someone who knows how to keep showing up. Perseverance isn’t built on easy days. It’s built on the ones you didn’t think you’d get through — and did anyway.

As Winston Churchill is often credited with saying, “If you’re going through hell, keep going.” The point was never to stop and admire the flames. The point is to keep walking, because the other side exists.

Inspiration Is a Practice of Presence

At the end of the day, inspiring yourself through the ups and downs isn’t about manufacturing positivity or ignoring what’s genuinely difficult. It’s about presence — being awake enough to your own life to notice the good that’s still there, even when it’s surrounded by everything that isn’t.

Ralph Waldo Emerson once wrote, “Write it on your heart that every day is the best day in the year.“

Not because every day is easy. Because every day holds something worth keeping, if you’re willing to look for it.

So today, in the grind and chaos — the meetings, the messes, the moments that don’t go as planned — pause. Breathe. Look around. Somewhere in the noise, there is still a reason to be grateful. There is still a reason to keep going. There is still a reason to rejoice.

That reason is often smaller than you expect, yet closer than you think.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“