Parenting was never meant to be easy—otherwise, everyone would have dozens of kids. It’s a path for those willing to sacrifice, to endure trials, and to keep choosing love every single day.

This truth echoes the greatest story of sacrifice and steadfast love we know: God sending His Son to die on the cross for us. Christ’s death was the ultimate act of surrender, done out of love for broken humanity.

Just as He bore the weight of pain and rejection, we bear our own struggles as parents. But God doesn’t leave us in the storm alone. He understands our pain deeply and holds the promise of victory beyond the trials.

Hebrews 12:2 reminds us to “fix our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before Him, He endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”

Like Jesus, we face challenges with an eye on the hope and joy ahead. Our sacrifice in parenting is part of a greater story: one of redemption, grace, and purpose.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Stay on track!

So, how can parents stay on track amid chaos and exhaustion? Here are three actions to anchor your journey:

1. Lean Into God’s Strength Daily
   When your own reserves run dry, remember Isaiah 40:31: “But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint.” Let God’s strength fuel you each day. Prayer, scripture, and honest surrender will keep you steady.
2. Set Small, Clear Intentions
   Parenting isn’t about perfection; it’s about consistent forward motion. Decide what one thing you can do today to encourage your child or reinforce your values. Simple, achievable goals prevent overwhelm and create momentum.
3. Celebrate Tiny Wins and Extend Grace
   Every moment of connection, every step forward counts. Celebrate the small victories quietly but intentionally. When you stumble, offer yourself grace—as God so often does for us.

On this Good Friday, remember the cross is more than a symbol of sacrifice—it’s a promise that after every storm, resurrection comes. The triumphs waiting for you and your family are within reach. Your efforts, though hard, are known and woven into a greater purpose.

You’re not alone. Keep going. Keep trusting. Stay on track.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“