Yes, it might sound a little poetic. And honestly? Marriage needs a bit of that poetry. A dash of rhythm, a flash of creativity, and a splash of surprise in how you show love keeps things alive and enticing.

ASK YOURSELF: What are you doing right now in your marriage that keeps things light and exciting?

• Is it the inside jokes you share in the kitchen?
• Those spontaneous date nights?
• Maybe it’s the way you still say “thank you” or “I appreciate you” even on the busiest days.

THINK DEEPER: Where could you be spicing things up?

• Is the communication starting to feel automatic?
• Have the meaningful moments become few and far between?
• Are you stuck in the day-to-day grind, forgetting how to fully enjoy each other’s presence?

If things are beginning to feel a little stale in your marriage, why not try and freshen things up?

The K.I.S.S. ~ Freshen things up!

If you sense it’s time to re-energize your marriage, here are three powerful ways you can make right now to freshen things up:

1. Bring Back the Intentional Surprises
   Forget mundane expectations. Do something unexpected for your spouse—a handwritten note left in their bag, a playlist of songs that remind you of them, or an unplanned outing. These small acts cut through the monotony and say loud and clear: You matter, and I’m thinking about you.
2. Create Space for Deeper Connection
   Turn off the screens, shut the door, and carve out time to actually talk—not about chores or kids, but about dreams, fears, or even silly things that make you both laugh. Vulnerability and depth reignite passion because they build emotional intimacy that routine can erode.
3. Reignite Physical Affection
   Physical touch isn’t just about sex. Reintroduce the simple gestures—holding hands during a walk, a spontaneous hug, or a slow dance in the living room. These moments remind you that you’re a team, close and connected in ways words can’t fully capture.

Don’t wait for “someday” or some dramatic event. Freshening up your marriage starts with these intentional choices today.

Because you know the real secret isn’t just big,  grand gestures, but the ongoing small bets you make on each other, season after season.

Your marriage deserves the energy of a fresh start. So go ahead—get a little poetic with your love. It’s exactly what keeps the story vibrant and worth telling.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“