The holiday season can be particularly challenging for couples, as it brings with it a myriad of stressors, overwhelm, and financial pressures. From juggling family gatherings and obligations to managing expectations and navigating the holiday budget, it’s easy for the joy and love to get lost amidst the chaos.

But it’s not too late to turn things around. By focusing on the power of today, you can slowly but surely create a more fulfilling tomorrow.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Build tomorrow by starting today!

Here are three simple yet effective actions that can increase your day by 1% and, in turn, deepen your love for your spouse.

1. Express Gratitude Daily: Take a moment each day to express gratitude for your spouse and the love you share. Gratitude has a profound impact on our well-being and the quality of our relationships. Whether it’s through a heartfelt conversation, a handwritten note, or a small act of kindness, let your spouse know how much you appreciate them. This simple practice can work wonders in strengthening your bond.

2. Practice Active Listening: Communication is the cornerstone of a healthy marriage, yet it’s often taken for granted. Make a conscious effort to practice active listening when your spouse speaks. Put away distractions, maintain eye contact, and truly engage in the conversation. Show empathy, validate their feelings, and be fully present. By doing so, you not only strengthen the connection between you but also create a safe space for open and honest communication.

3. Prioritize Self-Care: It’s easy to neglect ourselves when life gets chaotic, but taking care of your well-being is crucial for a thriving marriage. Make self-care a priority by setting aside time each day to focus on activities that rejuvenate you. Whether it’s going for a walk, reading a book, or practicing mindfulness, prioritize self-care to replenish your energy and be the best version for yourself and your spouse. You see, self-care impacts your confidence.

Remember, building a better tomorrow starts with the choices you make today. By implementing these simple yet powerful actions, you can increase the happiness and love in your marriage by 1% each day.

“When it comes to your marriage, tomorrow can’t be fabulous if today isn’t the focus.” ~ Kristianne Wargo

So, let go of the procrastination and seize the day. Your marriage–and your future together–will thank you for it.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“