I can remember when I would go to garage sales over the summer to prepare for Christmas that year. With a big family, I had to learn how to stretch the dollar and the budget.

But then, what do you do when the kids are unhappy with what’s under the tree?

With all of the stuff that is out there, the competition of getting “the right gift” is out of this world crazy!

However, as parents, we don’t have to become so flustered. We can enjoy the holiday season even if the kiddos are disappointed about what they got.

And that’s all because the reason for the season is not the wrapped gifts under the tree. You just have to prepare so the heart will see.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Prepare so the heart will see!

In this article, we explore three effective strategies parents can implement to foster gratitude and appreciation in their little ones.

1. GRAVITY: What holds your heart?

Emphasize the value of experiences over material possessions.

In a world saturated with consumerism, it’s essential to teach children that true happiness stems from experiences and cherished moments, rather than material things.

Encourage your child to create a wishlist that includes activities, outings, or quality time spent with loved ones. By prioritizing experiences, parents can reframe their child’s focus from physical gifts alone to meaningful interactions and shared memories.

2. GIVING: How can you serve from the heart?

Encourage a spirit of giving and charity.

Instilling a sense of empathy and compassion in children is crucial during the holiday season. Engage in charitable activities as a family, such as volunteering at a local shelter or participating in a toy drive.

Encourage your child to select one cherished gift from under the tree to donate to someone less fortunate. By doing so, children will realize the impact they can make on others’ lives, cultivating gratitude for what they have while fostering a sense of altruism.

3. GRATITUDE: How can you appreciate in the heart?

Practice daily gratitude rituals.

Make expressing gratitude a part of your family’s daily routine. Create a gratitude jar, where each family member writes down something they are thankful for every day, and then read them aloud during mealtime or before bedtime.

Additionally, encourage your child to write personalized thank-you notes to friends and family members who have given them gifts. By actively engaging in gratitude practices, parents can shape their child’s mindset towards appreciation and foster an attitude of thankfulness.

As Kristianne Wargo beautifully puts it, “Gratitude opens our eyes to the abundant blessings surrounding us, transforming our hearts that soon are decorated with life’s blessings that cannot part.”

Remember, Christmas is more than just the gifts under the tree. It’s a time for families to come together, create cherished memories, and celebrate the joy of giving.

But when we can position our hearts to be the eyes under the tree, that’s how you make it Christmas all year round. So who’s ready to wrap the real gifts this Christmas and put them under the tree?

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“