Are you one who does that for your spouse?

The K.I.S.S. ~ Practice love every day!

What are some tangible ways to practice love towards your spouse, while keeping their needs and well-being in mind?

1. Express gratitude and appreciation

Sometimes, we tend to overlook the little things that make our spouse unique and special. Take a moment each day to express your gratitude and appreciation for who they are and what they bring to the relationship. It could be as simple as leaving them a heartfelt note or verbally acknowledging their efforts. For example, you could say, “Thank you for always supporting my dreams and believing in me. Your unwavering belief in me means the world.”

2. Prioritize quality time

Amidst the daily hustle and bustle, it’s crucial to carve out quality time for your spouse. Make a conscious effort to create opportunities for bonding and connection. It could be a regular date night where you explore new places or activities together, or simply turning off all distractions and having a heartfelt conversation. Show them that they are a priority in your life. For instance, surprise your spouse with a planned outing or set aside an evening to cook their favorite meal together.

3. Practice active listening

Communication is key in any relationship, and it goes beyond just talking. Practice active listening – genuinely hearing and understanding your spouse’s thoughts, feelings, and concerns. This means giving them your undivided attention, maintaining eye contact, and validating their emotions. Show interest by asking open-ended questions and providing a safe space for them to share. For example, when your spouse expresses a worry, respond with empathy and say, “I understand how you feel. Let’s work through this together.”

Remember, love is not about performance or perfection. It’s about the consistent effort to make your spouse feel valued, understood, and cherished. As Kristianne Wargo beautifully puts it, “Love is not about performance to be perfect, but rather about the practice of loving.”

By implementing these three practices into your daily life, you will lay a strong foundation for a fulfilling and lasting marriage. Embrace the art of practicing love, and watch your relationship blossom into something truly beautiful.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“