I can remember cleaning the house many times, only to find more frustration, not at the cleaning part, but stepping on all the legos.

Being a parent is not fair. It’s downright abuse at times. We are asked to do the unthinkable by kids who take us for granted and lack respect for our hard work. They expect us to feed them every day and provide a roof over their heads.

Now you know I’m stretching this a little bit. But if you don’t find the humor in the chaos, the stress will bury you quicker.

If you want to find that peace, you have to create your sanctuary.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Create your sanctuary!

1. Embrace Imperfection

As parents, we often put immense pressure on ourselves to be perfect, to have all the answers, and to create an idyllic environment for our children. But the reality is, perfection is an unattainable goal. Instead, let us learn to embrace imperfection and be gentle with ourselves. Allow yourself to make mistakes and acknowledge that it’s okay not to have all the answers. Remember, your love and presence are what truly matters to your children.

2. Practice Self-Care

Amidst the never-ending tasks of parenting, we often neglect our own well-being. It’s important to remember that taking care of yourself is not selfish but rather essential for your ability to be the best parent you can be. Carve out time for self-care, whether it’s taking a long bath, reading a book, or simply going for a walk. When you prioritize self-care, you are refueling your soul and replenishing the energy needed to face the challenges of parenting.

3. Seek Support and Rest in Faith

Parenting is not meant to be done alone. Reach out to your support system, whether it’s trusted friends, family members, or parenting groups within your community. Share your struggles, seek advice, and allow yourself to lean on others. Additionally, find solace in your faith. Turn to scriptures, such as Matthew 11:28, which says, “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” Connect with your spiritual beliefs, seeking peace and solace that goes beyond human understanding.

Parenting is an incredible journey that comes with its fair share of challenges. Remember that it is in the midst of chaos and noise that we can find moments of tranquility. Rest assured that even in the mayhem, you are doing your best, and your love for your children will guide you along the way.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“