Marriage is not always easy, and there may be times when it feels like the two of you are just going through the motions.

Often, we spend a lot of time looking back at past mistakes and dwelling on them, instead of looking forward and moving on.

But, if we continue looking in the rearview mirror, we miss out on the present moment and the potential that lies ahead.

Remember, love doesn’t fade overnight, but we can grow apart if we forget to do our part in nurturing our relationships.

However, it’s never too late to start moving forward – risk forward and seize the moment that comes your way.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Risk forward!

Because if you don’t, who will? No one!! Including your spouse. You can’t wait for both of you to be on the same page. That’s why you’re in the predicament you’re in.

Be bold, not because you have the answers, but because you want to face your fear. If you are willing to do what seems impossible, that’s when the doors of opportunities open.

Now, I’m not saying this will “fix” your marriage. But it will begin to push you forward.

1. Be present in the moment. Stop looking back and start living in the present. True happiness comes from living in the moment and appreciating the now. This means making a conscious effort to be present when you’re spending time with your partner, allowing the past to simply fade away.

2. Heal intentionally. If there are deep wounds in your marriage, it’s important to take the time to heal with your partner. This can involve seeking therapy or counseling, or simply allowing yourselves the time you need to talk things out and process your feelings.

3. Focus on the positive. Instead of dwelling on the negative aspects of your relationship, try to focus on the positive things that brought you together in the first place. Write a list of the things you love about your partner and make an effort to express your gratitude for them regularly.

4. Risk more. Sometimes, taking a risk can be scary, but it can also be incredibly rewarding. This could mean planning a spontaneous date or trying something new, like a hobby or activity you’ve always wanted to try.

5. Communicate openly. Communication is key in any relationship, and it’s especially important when you’re trying to move forward from the past. Be honest with your partner about your feelings and encourage them to do the same. This will help you to create a stronger, more transparent bond.

You can start to move past the rearview mirror and risk forward in your marriage.

Remember, love is not just a feeling – it’s a verb; and that verb requires action. So, take action today to invest in your relationship and create a brighter future together.

PRAYER: May your past become a shadow of your present that you are willing to look in the face and move to another spot to find a bright silhouette. You shine brighter the more you reveal in the light. No more darkness in your marriage.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“