How do you speak to yourself when it comes to producing what you know needs to be done? Mute the question marks and convincingly whisper to yourself, “I don’t think, I know.”
How often do you find yourself leading with the phrase “I think”?
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In everyday conversation, “I think” because the leader of the pack when it comes to specifying what you believe.
However, let’s move this to your internal conversations, you speaking with yourself. When you are wondering what to do and trying to make a decision, after full analysis, the next phrase of decision starts with “I think”.
Do you “think” or do you “know”.
When you lead with a question mark, you lead with hesitation. Being reserved about your next step slows down your progress. It silences your momentum and produces more confusion.
It’s no wonder you get stuck and confused.
Saying I think is a diversion and has become a neutral position. Therefore, you don’t put yourself in a controversial stance or “know-it-all”. Who wants to be that jerk?
Stating it directly has the connotation of being stuck up or egotistical.
But this is in your mind and your thoughts.
You need to share your thoughts from a knowing position with yourself, not a position that makes you question your every move.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Think because you know!
In order to keep yourself moving forward and doing what you need to focus on, the internal conversation needs to be from a place of confrontation.
You are not trying to decide on a level playing field. The convincing can be reserved for outside conversations.
You are doing what is right for you in the moment during the season of life.
“Your thoughts need to sustain your belief within yourself.” ~ Kristianne Wargo
Think because you know!
- CHANGE your lead statement. These are the words connecting your confidence to your actions. If you let questionable words complete your sentences, you never will have the courage to try what you already know about yourself. Take the guesswork out of whether you can do it, and lead because you know.
- MASTER your belief. You have to be the biggest believer in yourself. And not from an egotistical point of view. But like the carpenter who is the master of his trade and takes a jagged square piece of wood and makes it a smooth circle. You need to carve out your own belief within yourself. It doesn’t matter how many people believe in you. If you don’t believe in yourself, quitting gets easier. Master your belief.
- MIND your thoughts. Just as you need to have a lead statement, you also need to put a period on what matters. Express yourself with words that elevate hope, inspiration, and possibilities. Nothing is impossible. That doesn’t mean it’s going to be easy or happen quickly. But by bringing the realization that you can do it by streamlining your words to support your vision/mission, it solidifies your direction, and the momentum can continue.
Think because you know!
CHALLENGE: Where do you need to alter your language? Your words need to match the outcome or results of your heart’s desire.
CAUTION: Otherwise, you will find yourself hunkered down in questions, and the answers will seem further from the facts.
CELEBRATE: Keep your eyes on the direction you’re headed. Remember, you have what it takes, but you still have to do what it takes to get to where you want to go.
Keep your whispers inspiring and always searching for what’s possible.
“Master today to impact tomorrow!” ~ Kristianne Wargo
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