People talk about habits when it comes to healthy living and work, but what about your marriage. Don’t let your habits dictate your love. Find a new way forward.
How comfortable are you with saying “I love you?” Sometimes we think we say it more often than we actually do.
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A study showed that after 10 years spent with the same partner, only one-third of couples still tell each other that they love them.
Think about how slim of a statistic that is. And I would think it’s even smaller. Scary, if you ask me when it comes to the health of your marriage.
Included in the people surveyed, only eleven percent described themselves as head-over-heels in love while one in five said the days being “in love” were over.
As relationships age over time, there seems to be a more practical approach to the nature of togetherness. The commitment seems to be more about ease and dependability rather than love and affection.
How is your marriage sitting? Are you riding on wings of love and affection? Or are you drowning in practicality like activities and responsibilities?
You can stay in love for a lifetime, but you must continue to find a new way forward.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Find a new way forward!
Because you too have habits in your marriage. You say “good morning” a certain way and “good night” another way. And let’s not forget the greeting of when your husband comes home from work and you are corraling the children doing evening activities both to and from home.
Crazy? Yes!
Real-life? Even more so!
Don’t let your habits dictate your love. Find a new way forward.
- Engage intentionally. You must notice your spouse every day.
- Forgive consistently. You can’t pick and choose when you forgive. You have to commit and be consistent.
- Love unconditionally. Leave your agenda in the trashcan. Instead, show up energized for your spouse ready to move mountains together.
None of this comes easy, but it’s so worth it. When your habits reflect your intentions, this is where the marriage will continue to blossom, or wither and die.
The choice is yours to make.
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