Communication is tough for everyone, especially around the holidays. Stress has you on overwhelm, and your spouse can’t handle everything alone. How can you show up better for your spouse?
If you’re not aware, Thanksgiving is next week. You might already have your Christmas tree up and house decorated for many celebrations to come.
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But there can’t be any celebrations if everyone in the home is tense, stressed out, and feeling a bit unnerved.
At some point, you have to find the middle ground in order to gain a semblance of peace.
No one wins if everyone is mad.
So how can you show up better for your spouse?
Go do what’s unspoken.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Go do what’s unspoken!
Now, I can hear you yelling at me, “How can I do what’s unspoken if I don’t know?”
It makes no sense.
You’re correct. It doesn’t make any sense. But that’s why you and I are here.
- What can I do for you? What do you need from me? – These do present two unique tones. One is of service, and the other is of taking.
- Tune up your tone. – How you say your words matter. If there is an edge to your tone, that’s going to put your spouse on the defensive. You want to have warm conversations that ignite connection.
- Use words that connect to your spouse’s heart. – Your spouse has his/her own vocabulary. You have to learn the words that mean something to them.
Communication is oxygen to the marriage. Without it, you suffocate.
No one wants to live in a dying relationship.
Spice up your marriage by how you love with words.
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