When you think about it, what does love mean to you? And remember, love is more than a feeling.
Definitions of words can be easy to ramble off. But you can stop anyone in their tracks when you ask what love means.
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At first they say something like, “You can’t put love into words. You just know.”
Yet why are break-ups and divorce rates SO high?
So what do you know?
Why did you fall in love with your sweetheart?
There are moments I question that myself. But usually it’s in response to me being upset about something, and I find myself shaking my head. Understand this is normal.
I want you to look at the big picture. What does love mean to you?
You might chime in with it’s an attraction at first. It’s that unexplainable nervous-like feeling you got when you first saw your sweetheart.
However, love is more than a feeling.
If we acted only on feelings, we would be messed up. Feelings are misleading.
You can go from being upset, to being totally rolling on the floor with laughter in minutes.
Feelings are a reaction. What love needs is a thoughtful response!
The K.I.S.S. ~ Respond not react!
Think back to a situation where you reacted quickly without much thought. You see, feelings encourage a reaction. It’s the knee jerk reaction (patella reflex). It happens before you give it thought. It’s automatic.
A response, though, is careful and thorough consideration. Time is place between the situation and your follow-up.
This allows you to be more thoughtful as to your approach. A little less fight and a little more consideration.
Respond not react.
- Give thoughtful consideration to the situation/circumstance.
- Look at the situation from all perspectives.
- Respond with the heart-mind connection.
Love is more than a feeling.
Love is an action.
CHALLENGE: How are your loving in your marriage? Where can you love with more responses not reactions?
“Love is more than a feeling.”
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