In your daily conversations, have you ever acted like you were auditioning for a theatrical production? Are you drummin’ up drama?
Words, phrases, and tonality of your voice followed by actions, represent your character in your marriage.
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You probably never though that you were a character in your marriage. But you are!
So I want you to think about one of your favorite shows. Now pick out your favorite character.
- What is it about that character you like?
- What mannerisms are you attracted to?
Usually we pick favorite characters based on …
- Relatability
- Personality
- Back story
- Storyline
You are a character in your life. But what we don’t recognize is the repercussions that come from our words, our phrases, our tone, our actions.
Yes, there is a lot of good. Yet we forget when we get too comfortable, there can be tension and some negative things. We like to brush this stuff under the bed and hope they stay there.
But what happens to the dust bunnies? — They grow!
Have you cleaned out underneath your bed 2, 3, 5 years later? You can get some really big dust bunnies filled with gunk (food particles, pebbles from your shoes, actual dirt).
All of this represents the bitterness, the anger, the frustration, the disappointment — All of that is a port of your character in your marriage.
Are you drummin’ up drama?
Your marriage is worth more than a drama. You don’t want to be a character in your favorite show.
Words have power and they leave a mark Same with your body language, the tone of your voice, and the actions that accompany your words.
If you are desiring a marriage inclusive to both partners, you have to stop drummin’ up the drama.
Honestly, most of us do not realize we are creating this drama in our marriage. Plus, we’re too busy. When was the last time you shared an uninterrupted moment with your spouse?
You agreed this is your soulmate for life. Isn’t your spouse is worth every bit of effort on your part to extinguish the drama?
How do you stop drummin’ up the drama?
The K.I.S.S. ~ Say what you mean, Mean what you say!
- Speak out of love.
- Act out of love.
- Genuinely be you! Mean what you say.
Your marriage is worth it!
“Say what you mean, mean what you say!”
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