Remember this: “It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way you carry it.” Lou Holtz’s words cut deep here.

Your life’s load—your struggles, your wins, your pace—is unique. Trying to bear it under the weight of others’ expectations or schedules doesn’t just crush your confidence; it steals your peace. The order of your journey is yours alone—and that’s exactly how it should be.

There’s deep wisdom in Matthew 11:28-30: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. ²⁹ Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. ³⁰ For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

This isn’t a call to competition or perfection. It’s an invitation to rest, to accept your season, and to stop proving your worth based on external timelines.

So how do you live life out of order and still move forward?

The K.I.S.S. ~ Live O.U.T. of order!

Let’s get strategic about this. Living life “out of order” isn’t a setback—it’s a different rhythm. Here’s a bold O.U.T. framework to own your pace and reclaim your peace:

O — Own Your Story
Stop comparing. Your path, with all its twists, messiness, and detours, is yours. Write down what you’ve overcome and what only you can bring to the table. Ownership of your unique journey silences the voice of judgment and fuels confidence.

U — Unplug from the Noise
Disconnect from feeds and vibes that trigger comparison or self-doubt. Create a daily ritual to check in with yourself—journal, meditate, or simply breathe. This clears mental clutter so your decisions come from clarity, not chaos.

T — Trust Your Timing (and God’s)
Ignore the pressure to “catch up.” Remind yourself that forward momentum doesn’t require a straight line. Set small, non-negotiable goals that honor where you are now—and celebrate each one like a win.

December’s chaos isn’t your enemy. Living life out of order isn’t waiting for your turn—it’s owning the one you’re already in. And it means you refuse to be defined by anyone else’s calendar or highlight reel. Shift your mindset from judgment to acceptance—and watch your peace grow. Your story matters—on your schedule.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“