The kids have us running all over the place, regardless of whether they are living with us or not. I have a good friend who schedules her time with her only daughter once a month to see her. I’ve wondered if she does the same, but on a more frequent basis, with her husband.

We take a lot for granted. We think tomorrow will be here and we’ll do it then. But tomorrow is not guaranteed.

With Easter tomorrow, it brought to my attention how we need to love each other like God loved His Son and loves us!

But we don’t have time for that either.

Or do we?

I think we make time for what matters. They say if you were to look at your monthly bank statement, it would tell you exactly what you prioritize. For me, maybe food. I’m just joking. But seriously, how are you spending your time, money, energy, and emotions with your spouse?

Are you creating a bond that is inseparable?

Looking at Easter with Good Friday yesterday, God loved His Son through the end and through the beginning. That love endured throughout sunrises and sunsets.

But what about your love for your spouse?

We don’t necessarily punish our spouses in the manner that Jesus took on our sins, but to a degree, we hold grudges and keep score as if they should be punished.

At what point do you say, “I need to love the way God first loved me?”

Because that changes everything!!

The K.I.S.S. ~ Love changes everything!

And it’s not about love in the manner of what the world says, but how God shows us.

Unconditional love needs to be the root of our marriage.

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 – “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”

How are you loving your spouse?

Love changes everything!

And it did the night that Jesus was crucified for you and me. Thankfully, Jesus rose on the third day in which we celebrate as Easter!

Love changes everything.

How can you take what God has proven to be true love and establish that in your marriage?

1. Practice Forgiveness Daily: Let go of past grievances and embrace a spirit of forgiveness towards your partner. Just as God forgave us through Christ, extend grace and mercy to your spouse, fostering a sense of healing and reconciliation in your relationship.

Ephesians 4:32 – “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.”

2. Cultivate Kindness and Patience: Channel the love described in Corinthians by choosing to show kindness and patience in your interactions with your spouse. Small acts of kindness and understanding can go a long way in strengthening the bond between you and your partner.

3. Prioritize Quality Time: Make intentional efforts to talk openly and honestly with your spouse, creating a space for shared experiences and heartfelt conversations. That comes with quality time. Dedicate quality time to nurture your connection and deepen your understanding of each other’s needs and desires.

You get the opportunity to show your love as Christ loved you first.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“