In the rollercoaster journey of parenthood, there are moments that strike fear into the hearts of even the most seasoned moms and dads. It’s in these moments of uncertainty and vulnerability that you get to choose how you want to grow and evolve as a parent.

As I always say, “The right thing and the hard thing are the same thing.”

Now, that doesn’t make it easier, yet it gives you a reality check as to where you are so you can make adjustments to where you need to go.

Embracing fear allows you to confront the challenges head-on rather than shying away from them.

“Courage is not the absence of fear, but the triumph over it.” – Nelson Mandela

The K.I.S.S. ~ It’s good to be scared!

I really want you to embrace that for yourself. Maybe that’s the permission you need this holiday season to enjoy it more, to let your heart be present, not just your to-do list.

Being a parent is undoubtedly one of the toughest jobs in the world. It requires patience, empathy, and a whole lot of courage.

When faced with situations where our children push our buttons, test our limits, or make mistakes, it’s easy to feel scared and overwhelmed. However, it’s precisely in these moments that we have the chance to show up as the best version of ourselves.

“Parenting is about growing up as much as it is about raising kids.” ~ Kristianne Wargo

Mom, it’s time to embrace that fear because it’s good to be scared.

1. Practice self-compassion: Remember that it’s okay to feel scared and vulnerable as a parent. Be kind to yourself during challenging moments.

2. Seek support: Reach out to friends, family, or a therapist or coach for guidance and encouragement when you’re feeling overwhelmed.

3. Embrace imperfection: Accept that parenting is a journey filled with ups and downs, and that making mistakes is a natural part of the process.

As we navigate the holiday season and all the joys and challenges it brings, let’s remember that it’s good to be scared. But scared in a manner that serves!

Embracing fear allows us to step into our power as parents, to grow, learn, and connect with our children in profound ways.

So, this Christmas season, embrace your fears, lean into the discomfort, and give yourself permission to be immersed in growing as you emerge stronger and wiser with more hope than ever before.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“