In the midst of the chaos, it’s crucial to strike a balance between the tasks we need to accomplish and the essence of who our children are meant to be.

And that’s where you have the battle of “To Do vs. To Be.”

What is it like in your home?

Depending on the stages and ages of your children, you could be looking at temper tantrums to back talk to fiesty four-letter words to just being ignored.

It’s a whirlwind of tornados that stretch in ways you never thought you would be stretched.

But you show up for your kids every day!

And that’s the key!

“Parenting is not just about what we do for our children; it’s about guiding them to embrace their unique essence and fulfill their divine destiny.” ~ Kristianne Wargo

So, from what side of the battle are you fighting?

Is it that you are too busy and don’t make time for heart to heart conversations? Is it that you are in a season that too much is happening and you don’t have the stamina and stability to extend yourself further?

To Do vs. To Be

What can you do to nurture your child not in their outward skills, what everyone sees, but in their inward skills, what everyone feels?

The K.I.S.S. ~ Engage more than you direct!

Here are three essential strategies for mothers to nurture their children’s authentic selves and support them in becoming who God created them to be:

1. Cultivate Meaningful Connections: In the hectic pace of modern life, it’s essential to prioritize genuine connections with your children.

“Building strong bonds with your child lays the foundation for them to feel seen, heard, and valued.” ~ Kristianne Wargo

Real Life Example: Dedicate quality time each day for one-on-one conversations with your child, free from distractions. Engage in activities they enjoy, such as baking together, taking walks, or simply sitting down to share stories and laughter.

2. Empower Self-Discovery: Encourage your child to explore their passions, talents, and inner truths.

“Facilitating self-discovery allows children to uncover their unique gifts and purpose in life.” ~ Kristianne Wargo

Real Life Example: Create a “treasure chest” with your child, where they can fill it with items that represent their dreams, aspirations, and interests. Support them in trying new experiences and hobbies, fostering a sense of exploration and self-expression.

3. Embrace Moments of Stillness: Amidst the chaos of daily responsibilities, make space for quiet moments of reflection and connection with your child.

“Silent moments allow for deeper connections and insights to emerge, fostering a sense of peace and clarity.” ~ Kristianne Wargo

Real Life Example: Establish a daily ritual of gratitude and mindfulness with your child, where you can share what you’re thankful for and reflect on the beauty of life together. These moments of stillness can strengthen your bond and nurture your child’s spiritual growth.

“Parenting is a sacred journey of nurturing your child’s heart and soul, guiding them to embrace their true essence and shine brightly in the world.” ~ Kristianne Wargo

By embracing the delicate harmony of “To Do vs. To Be” in your daily interactions with your children, you can create a nurturing environment where they thrive as the unique individuals they were destined to be.

“It’s not about the busy; it’s about the being!” ~ Kristianne Wargo

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“