“How can you live the life God designed specifically for you if you are always talking about what-if?” ~ Kristianne Wargo

Living in a perpetual state of a “what-if” mindset hinders your ability to see yourself as successful. It keeps you constantly looking in the rearview mirror, fixated on missed opportunities or past failures.

The key to unlocking your potential and creating a fulfilling life lies in transitioning from ‘what-if’ to ‘now.’ Hence, create your now!

The K.I.S.S. ~ Create your now!

But just like anything else, you have to take A.I.M.! Action ignites movitation.

Here are three actionable steps you can take to make this transformation:

1. Embrace Self-Awareness

One essential step in releasing the grip of ‘what-if’ thinking is to cultivate self-awareness. Reflect on what drives your thoughts, this mindset, and what fears or doubts are holding you back.

What are you really afraid of?

Acknowledging these limitations equips you to confront them head-on, allowing you to take control of your thoughts and redirect them toward the present.

2. Practice Gratitude

Shifting your focus from ‘what-if’ to ‘what is’ can be challenging, but practicing gratitude can help rewire your mindset.

What blessings are before you?

Make a habit of recognizing and appreciating the blessings in your life, no matter how small they may seem. By cultivating gratitude, you train your mind to be present and open to the opportunities that exist right now.

3. Set Clear Goals and Take A.I.M.

To create your ‘now,’ it’s essential to set clear goals and take intentional action. Define what you want to achieve and break it down into actionable steps.

What is possible?

By prioritizing these objectives and committing to taking consistent action, you shift your energy towards building the life you desire, making ‘what-if’ scenarios lose their grip on your thoughts, your heart; your mindset.

“At no point will you see yourself as successful if you are always living in the ‘what if.’ So, stop looking back; use the rearview mirror as a reminder that you’ve come so far to create your now.” ~ Kristianne Wargo

Ultimately, living a life of purpose requires releasing the shackles of ‘what-if’ thinking and embracing the present moment.

By cultivating self-awareness, practicing gratitude, and taking intentional action toward your goals, you create the space to experience the life that God has designed specifically for you. So, let go of the ‘what ifs’ and open yourself up to the endless possibilities, and create your now.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“