The K.I.S.S. ~ Build it every day!

Action by action. Thought by thought. Word by word. Build it every day.

COMMUNICATION – Communication is essential for any relationship to thrive, but it’s particularly important for a marriage. When communication is open and honest, both people feel heard and understood, and this promotes a deeper connection.

However, It’s important to keep in mind that communication is a two-way street. Both must be willing to listen and communicate with each other, respectfully and empathetically.

TRUST – In a strong marriage, both spouses must trust each other completely, and this trust is built over time. It’s earned. It takes effort and hard work to build trust, but it’s essential in any long-term relationship.

Trust is built by being honest, keeping promises, and being reliable. It’s all in the follow-through. When trust is present in a marriage, it creates a sense of security that allows both spouses to feel safe and supported, which in turn equates to “feeling loved”.

RESPECT – Respect means treating your spouse in a way that shows you value them as an individual. In a respectful relationship, both of you should feel valued, appreciated, and loved.

Respect is demonstrated by listening to your sweetheart’s opinions and feelings, even if you don’t agree with them. It means not criticizing or belittling your spouse, and not using hurtful language or actions that diminish your spouse’s sense of self-worth.

DEDICATION – It’s easy to fall into a routine and take each other for granted, but it’s important to remember that a marriage needs regular attention to thrive. You’ve gotta be dedicated. This means putting effort into your relationship, doing things together, and ensuring that you’re both building a life you love. It means dedicating time to communicate and show appreciation for each other.

Building a marriage worth having requires more than just feeling love. That magnetic force is great at first, but it requires much presence. It takes communication, trust, respect, and dedication, amongst other things, to make a strong and fulfilling partnership, where “me becomes we”.

Like the wind, love is intangible, but it can be felt deeply and strongly.

By focusing on building a strong foundation and working on the key areas of a successful marriage, you can create a deep, strong, and lasting bond that can withstand the winds of change.

PRAYER: May the Lord bless the pillars in your marriage so you can rise above the storms that shake the foundation. Love til the ends of the earth.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“