Now, don’t be too quick to answer the question. I don’t want a knee-jerk answer.

What does your every day look like?

• Maybe you are two ships passing in the night.
• Maybe you are great together, but that togetherness is rare.
• Maybe you are married, but don’t act like it.

It’s so easy to tune-in to what you know and keep yourself attached to those results.

But the key is not always about what you know. It’s about learning and growing together; expanding your horizon as a couple.

The K.I.S.S. ~ Expand your horizon as a couple!

One problem in marriage is that one or both spouses get caught up in themselves. There isn’t an intentional drive to learn and grow as a couple.

You hang out together thinking that what you had from the beginning will last forever.

And that’s not the case!

You are changing as an individual through experience, age, and knowledge.

Think about the waves in the ocean. There are high tides and low tides. And then you might be lucky for a calm moment. But at no point is a wave the same.

The force, strength, whitecaps, undertows, and currents are all different.

Same with how you are as a couple. You are always growing and learning. Change is a constant even in your marriage.

So expand your horizon.

1. Learn something new together. There are many things out there that you can do as a couple.
2. Create a new routine together. You don’t want to be boring. You can have a rhythm in life and still be spontaneous and spunky.
3. Explore new opportunities together. This can be anything that makes you curious. Curiosity develops memories. And through those memories, you draw closer to each other emotionally.

Keep this in mind, if you are married, then there is another person in life you must consider.

Being selfish doesn’t fit in a good marriage recipe.

Take your marriage from vow to wow; expand your horizon.

“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!“