Days are long and nights are short. You can make a bold change. But what are you to do when your spouse doesn’t seem to notice?
Seems like an easy answer. Just go tell him!
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Or do you?
Responsibilities of the day can get in the way. It’s easy to butt heads when you’re tired and hungry.
So what do you do when your spouse doesn’t seem to notice?
Pursue the pros, not the cons!
The K.I.S.S. ~ Pursue the pros!
We can get superset on the cons. Let the negatives ring!! But in reality, pursuing the pros is what is needed.
- Set aside what you want for what you get. Be excited about what is noticed. Believe it or not, the way change is discovered by your spouse is going to differ greatly than what you desire.
- See the change through your spouse’s eyes. Maybe things don’t look all that different. And that isn’t always bad.
- Celebrate what the change promotes. If you are looking for more cohesiveness and comfort and you’re getting that feeling, then go with it. Each change doesn’t have to be rocket science to both partners. Enjoy the results not the work.
Getting recognized for your endeavors to make a house a home is something most want. But it’s not always feasible between partners. Some people are more observant than others. And there’s nothing wrong with that.
Don’t get stuck in the nitty-gritty when your spouse doesn’t seem to notice. It’s not the end of the world.
Instead, let your love shine through the change that impacts your relationship.
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