How much do you argue with your sweetheart? Emotions can wreck a relationship. But if you desire a strong marriage, you must love even when you’re mad!
Yet channeling that anger can be frustrating. You want to be right, or prove your spouse is wrong.
Desire to be supported and encourage by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. http://facebook.com/groups/thewomenofimpact
Love is not a convenience. It’s not about getting your way and showing affection only when you get something in return.
Marriage is a two-way street. Love is a verb. Put the two together and that requires work!
And that work can be easy at times and challenging at other times.
So what happens typically when you get mad at your spouse?
- You storm out of the room in a huff.
- Your tone of voice changes and has a bite to it.
- You yell loudly with great emphasis.
- You walk away quietly not doing anything, because you believe the situation is hopeless.
- You are short with him throughout the rest of the evening.
- You play the silent game; no speaking, only dirty looks.
- You may even sting him with your fiery laser eyes.
- You might have even thrown a few things.
Of course, this might be the tip of the iceberg.
What can you do when you are plain, plum mad?
LOVE!!!
The K.I.S.S. ~ Love even when you’re mad!
Love is an action.
Love is patient. Love is kind. (1 Corinthians 13:4)
Love requires us to decide whether to act or not to act. Either way, you are taking action. Just one, though, lives up to what God commands of us.
“Let all you do be done in love.” ~ 1 Corinthians 16:14
And that means love even when you’re mad!
- Create a presence of calmness and self-control.
- Convey an attitude with a gentle heart; this uses your attitude to guide your responses toward your spouse.
- Serve with a grateful heart. (No expectations of a return on your investment; altruism.)
- Forgive quicker and love deeper. (When you forgive quickly, your heart is free to love deeper.)
“Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!”
#RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage
TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation – This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will be able to discuss your specific situation and gain tools and strategies to move you forward.
Live. Love. IMPACT!
“One step at a time leads to miles of greatness!”
Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube.
Wanting help with goals, setting your schedule, or need someone to talk to (even if you don’t know what you need)? It’s time you TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation. This is FREE for you. Stop trying to do it by yourself. Put YOU first! Become your best selfie so you can live your life’s purpose.
ANNOUNCEMENT: Ready to shine your light and tell your story. Please click on MY STRENGTH IS MY STORY. Here you can submit yourself to appear on the podcast or make recommendations as who you would like to hear. This is going to be a beautiful series!
Subscribe to Create Your Now TV on YouTube.
Listen to Create Your Now on Spotify.
Listen to Create Your Now on iHeart Radio. Click here.
The Create Your Now Archives are LIVE!! You can subscribe and listen to all the previous episodes here. http://bit.ly/CYNarchive1 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive2 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive3 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive4 and http://bit.ly/CYNarchive5
Contact me at YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com
Instagram
@CreateYourNow
@Kristianne Wargo
Twitter
@KristianneWargo
@CreateYourNow
Facebook
www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach
www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow
Cover Art by Jenny Hamson
Photo by NeONBRAND on Unsplash
Music by Mandisa – Overcomer
http://www.mandisaofficial.com
Song ID: 68209
Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI)
9t One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music –
Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.
Leave a Reply