Everyone needs a hero. But where that hero shows up is in the most unlikely places. Right in your reflection!
Life can be such a drag. Just getting through the day doesn’t seem like your living your dreams. Responsibilities are no fun.
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Who wants to wait around 4 hours for the repairman to come and tell you what’s wrong with the freezer? Who wants to do homework that you didn’t understand when you were in school? Who wants to do all the stuff that is part of life, but doesn’t ignite your passion?
And that’s just you!
You look at what your children need from you on a daily basis. They expect you to show up ready to take care of them. No sick days for mom (or dad).
I can’t imagine what I put my mother through; and still to this day what I put her through.
But one thing I’ve learned is that our parents can’t give us everything we need. As much as we think we do, there is still much to be accomplished from the child’s perspective.
And that is believing in themselves.
Everyone needs a hero.
Sometimes as parents, we get trapped in staging our children’s lives, including our own.
We try to be everything to everybody. However, there comes a day when our children need to realize that they have all the potential within themselves.
We raise them up and then the discovery happens.
I can do this!
Gman was telling me about his STEM class and how there was a boy who was being very difficult. He’s a student who doesn’t do his work, goofs off, and some would call him a troublemaker.
To say the least, Gman couldn’t believe he was put in his group again.
“Mom, now I have to worry about him and whether he’ll do his work or not.”
I immediately stopped him before he continued to complain.
I said, “Maybe what he needs from you is love. Maybe he needs something you can give him because he doesn’t get it from home.”
SILENCE struck the room!
Talk about crickets. But I got him thinking!
Everyone needs a hero.
Staging our children’s lives do not serve them. God doesn’t stage our life. He teaches by example and discipline; He’s the disruptor.
Everyone needs a hero.
The K.I.S.S. ~ Be the disruptor!
Be the disruptor in your child’s life; in your own life.
Banish the question marks in your child’s head. Ignite within them exactly what they need to discover in their reflection.
When they look in the mirror, they need to see what you see in them. What God sees in them.
EMP of life…electromagnetic pulse that says I’m worthy of much more!
Meaning our children short change themselves. We do it too. So we have to create the EMP and be the disruptor.
- Encourage with truth.
- Motivate with goodness.
- Propel with worth.
“Everyone needs a hero. Be the hero for your child. Be the hero for yourself.”
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Music by Mandisa – Overcomer
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Song Title: Overcomer
Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia
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