Habits are great when it comes to simplifying our lives. But are habits good for marriages? Make every day unique.
It’s super easy to live by the cut of habits; what is practiced over and over again becomes routine. Not much thought is needed to execute.
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If you give it some thought, it makes sense when it comes to learning your partner.
- Fix his favorite sandwich without asking every time what he wants. Food goes right to the heart.
- When it comes to basic necessities, habits make our mundane responsibilities less complicated. We can focus on more important items at hand.
- Habits help establish expectations.
Habits are very beneficial in allowing more directed focus on other things, and not really having to worry much about the day to day activities.
However, habits can create wedges in our marriages. Assumptions can be made based on what we know from the habits.
Those assumptions can be interpreted good or bad:
- Thanks for thinking of me.
- Why didn’t you ask?
Part of the reason dating is so much fun is that you are constantly learning something new about your partner.
But you get married. You get comfortable. You get into habits. Children come along. And there’s nothing new under the sun.
NOT TRUE!!!
Yes, the part of you get married, you get comfortable, you get into habit, and children come along. That’s all true.
But there IS always something new under the sun!
It’s just we get caught up in every day. Not the special every day. The moment where his eyes connect to yours for no reason and gives you a wink. The time he takes you in his arms and starts dancing with no music.
Those are the times created by you all as a couple!
The K.I.S.S. ~ Make every day unique!
It’s about refreshing what you’re doing with your actions. Not staying glued to what you know. But experiencing joy with what you learn along the way.
- Make a moment one of a kind! Special in its own way.
- Create a habit of learning something new weekly about each other.
- Add a little sparkle ‘n spice to make every day nice! This is the “pick-me-up”.
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